The Dos and Don’ts of First-Year Dorm Living

Here's what you need to know if you're living in a dorm room for the first time!

Special thanks to Aisha Ahmed, Carleton’s student in a Bachelor of Health Sciences program, who wrote this blog post for you!

Living on your own for the first time is an exciting milestone for many first-year students at Carleton University. However, dorm living comes with its own set of challenges. Whether you're sharing a room with a stranger or adjusting to a new space, knowing the dos and don’ts can make your dorm experience more enjoyable and hassle-free.

Dos:

Here’s what you should do when you move into your dorm room!

1. Get to know your roommate

Take the time to introduce yourself to your roommate(s) and establish open communication from the start. Discuss preferences, schedules, and any concerns to ensure a harmonious living environment.

2. Set ground rules

Establish ground rules early on regarding quiet hours, guests, sharing belongings, and cleaning responsibilities. Having clear boundaries can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts down the road.

3. Personalize your space

Make your dorm room feel like home by adding personal touches such as photos, posters, and decorative items. However, be mindful of clutter and avoid overcrowding the space.

4. Stay organized

Utilize storage solutions such as under-bed containers, hanging organizers, and desk organizers to maximize space and keep your belongings tidy. A clutter-free environment can help reduce stress and improve productivity.

5. Respect quiet hours

Be mindful of quiet hours set by your dormitory or university. Keep noise levels down, especially during late hours, to respect the needs of your fellow residents and promote a conducive study environment.

Don’ts:

Now that you know what you should do in your dorm, here’s what you should avoid doing!

1. Overlook safety measures

Don't compromise on safety measures such as locking your door, keeping emergency exits clear, and promptly reporting any maintenance issues or safety concerns to residence staff.

2. Disregard community spaces

For extended periods, avoid monopolizing common areas such as lounges, kitchens, and laundry rooms. Share these spaces respectfully with other residents and clean up after yourself.

3. Engage in conflict avoidance

Don't shy away from addressing conflicts or issues with your roommate(s) or neighbors. Ignoring problems can escalate tensions and create a hostile living environment. Approach conflicts calmly and seek mediation if needed.

4. Forget to establish boundaries

Don't assume that your roommate(s) will automatically respect your boundaries. Clearly communicate your preferences and boundaries regarding personal space, belongings, and visitors to avoid misunderstandings.

By incorporating these tips, you can create a positive and supportive living environment that enhances your overall university experience.